
For those of you who haven't already heard, we're planning on using cloth diapers with baby Bate #2. And I've been getting a LOT of questions about it from friends and family lately. I thought I'd post all the reasons why, what I did to make it possible and all that jazz. So for those of you who want to know more about cloth diapers or just want to have a good laugh at my craziness, here is a ridiculously long post for your enjoyment.
Micah's cousin first introduced us to cloth diapers when I was pregnant with McKenzie. I'm not gonna lie, at first I was totally grossed out by the idea of washing and reusing diapers. But after a while we used them (along with a few my sister gave me because she also does cloth diapering) on McKenzie for overnight use when she had a super bad diaper rash. By morning it would be gone, and so I felt I was helping her little bum somewhat. It was also nice for those nights when we realized we were out of diapers and had these on hand until we could get to the store.
After many long discussions with my sister about the pros and cons of using cloth over disposable and also visiting her for 2 weeks and watching the whole process of using and washing them, I said to myself, "This doesn't seem too bad. I think I can do this!"
Here's why I ultimately decided on trying cloth:
1- Nothing bothers me more than spending money on stuff over and over again that I just throw in the trash. I would get SO annoyed every time we had to buy diapers. I kept seeing diapers as literal money that Kenzie was pooping on and I was throwing away. (Nice visual, I know haha)
2- When McKenzie was little, she had blowouts pretty often. What is the difference between washing onesies and pjs with poop from a blowout and a diaper? Not much. Cloth diapers have a good reputation for preventing blowouts- mostly because they have elastic in the back of the diaper that hugs the baby's back and holds the poop in.
3- Kenzie had a very sensitive bum and we could only use Pampers. Everything else she either leaked out of or got severe rashes from. Not fun...
4- I've been making my own laundry detergent for about a year and a half and it has saved us quite a bit of money. I don't feel that washing and drying these diapers will be too expensive since I've already found a way to save money in that area.
So when we decided we were going to try for another baby I really started to do some research on what diapers I wanted to use. I knew I liked the style my sister uses (
bumGenius) but I didn't like how pricey they were. I knew that it'd be around $300 all at once to buy as many as we'd need and I wasn't sure how long it'd take for me to save up that much. It is still MUCH cheaper than diapering a child until 2 (or 3 in McKenzie's case) which you end up spending around $2,000. But you get the idea of why I didn't want to spend that big of a chunk of money "all at once," right?
Plus, even though the idea of a one-size diaper was awesome (not having to buy that many in each size and whatnot) I didn't like the idea of a smaller baby having a HUGE diaper on and not being able to fit in most of their cute little outfits.
I started feeling a little discouraged... and then like an answer to prayer, Micah's cousin (who started this whole thing haha) talked with me about making my own diapers. At this point I had started to feel comfortable enough with my sewing skills to think this was actually a possibility. She had made a bunch for her kids (and the 2 she gave me when Kenzie was born) and they were super cute and fitted in size so they weren't super bulky. A few months ago she was approached on a cloth diaper forum to be a tester for some patterns and new materials of an up-and-coming company called, "
Babyville Boutique." After showing me their instruction book and how unbelievably adorable their materials were, I was SOLD.
So I started saving my pennies and bought the book and a few packs of the PUL (polyurethane laminated fabric that is waterproof but somewhat breathable. You use that as the outside of the diaper so it doesn't get other things wet.) She showed me where to buy velcro, elastic and material to absorb the mess. With a lot of help from a wonderful family who donated some money for the cause and my Christmas money, I was able to get all the things I needed.
I've kept all my receipts for anything I've bought that is diaper related and so far I've spent $150.03. It may sound like a lot, but here's what I've made with it so far-
17 newborn diapers
15 small diapers
1 medium diaper
1 wetbag (I'll explain in a minute)
My plan is to have about 20 in each size so I won't have to do laundry every day. We have 4 guys renting our basement so we have a laundry schedule to keep. Right now I'm washing on Mondays and Thursdays. Once baby comes I plan on switching to Monday (all day) and Wed and Fri until 3 pm. (That way I'm not hogging the washer and dryer all day, plus most of them aren't home during the day anyway) My cousin-in-law was kind enough to sell me some of her used diapers to add to my stash, and was also willing to trade me 4 diapers if I would make her a doll. Done and done!! So my newborn stash is complete, and I'm getting super close to finishing up my smalls. Once I finish making the mediums I should be completely done. Unless this baby is a major chunk, medium should be just fine. (I tried one one Kenzie the other day and although it was a bit snug, she technically could have been fine with it).
So here is what I purchased to make this possible-
-LOTS of PUL (1 yd white, 1 yd pink, 1/2 yd blue, 1/2 yd black, and 3 of the 3 pks of Babyville prints in gender neutral colors)
-Flannel to line the newborn size and make "soakers" (I had quite a bit on hand and bought random remnant pieces at JoAnns)
-14 yds of 1/4" elastic
-about 10 yds velcro (a 1:3 ratio of hook and loop)
-2 yds micro terry (absorbant material)
-2 yds suede cloth (to line the smalls and mediums)
-60 pk of snaps (to snap soakers to diaper)
-snap pliers
-instruction book with patterns
-fun labels to decorate them (not necessary, but fun)
I bought everything at JoAnns or Hobby Lobby with coupons and sales except for the micro terry, velcro and elastic. Those were purchased from
verybaby.com (I actually bought half of the velcro and elastic from my cousin-in-law because I ran out and she had a ton on hand)
If you've done any kind of research on cloth diapers you'll find that a lot of people prefer to use snaps over the velcro. I am not one of those people. I made a pantie cover for McKenzie and used snaps on it and I don't like how difficult it is to get a perfect fit. Plus I figured if I can make this as easy as possible (and most like disposables) for Micah and anyone else who might happen to change this baby's bum, then I'll do that. The velcro is just like the normal tabs you'd see on a regular diaper and gets the perfect fit every time.
Some other essentials you need when cloth diapering are a wetbag and a diaper sprayer.
A wetbag is basically a bag you keep in your diaper bag to put the dirty diapers in until you can get home. You use the PUL so it is waterproof and you can either close it with a drawstring, velcro or zipper. I chose to make mine with a zipper- and I actually am going to try to take it apart and do it again because to be honest, I suck at sewing zippers. You can also make a big one to keep all your dirty diapers in until wash day, or just use a garbage can with a lid and be sure to hose it out every once in a while.
A diaper sprayer is like a mini-shower head that attaches to your toilet and you can use to spray off the excess mess.

Not only is it really helpful for diapers, but for cleaning up messes while potty-training as well. Even though we had been using a few cloth diapers here and there for McKenzie, we haven't bought one yet. I had just been using the spray bottle the hospital gives you after you have a baby. I would fill it up a few times and spray excess poop into the toilet and then take the diaper out to the laundry room to wait for laundry day. It was ok for us since it was only every once in a while, but I will be buying a sprayer to attach to the toilet for this one since I'll be doing cloth full-time.
Another question people have asked me is if we will use cloth wipes. I know we won't do it all the time (and I really don't expect Micah to use them) but when I'm at home I plan on using a spray bottle with a wipes solution my cousin gave me and I'm cutting up all of McKenzie's old flannel receiving blankets and sewing them into little square wipes. (I have my eye on some other baby blankets that are WAY better than those, so it isn't a huge loss to cut them up.) I figure it'll help a little with not having to buy as many, but it obviously won't be something I can do all the time. I can only ask so much of my hubby and babysitters ;)
If you're like me and don't mind all the extra hours of making them yourself to save some money, I say go that route. There are so many different styles and patterns you can find online or go buy the Babyville book like I did. It was a great resource for me and walked me step by step through making them.
I honestly don't know how many hours it took me to make all these diapers, but I do know that it was a LOT and that it went much faster to do an assembly line. When Micah and I were watching a movie after Kenzie was in bed I would lay out my fabric on the floor and cut out a ton of diapers. Then another day I would do the first sewing step, then another day I'd sew all the elastic on, then another day I'd flip them out and topstitch, and then another day I'd do all the velcro. It was quite a process. I did have fun though having sewing days/nights with my cousin-in-law and other friends too. I suggest doing that ;)
Here are a ton of links to sites that sell diaper making materials. I've only ever bought from verybaby.com, Hobby Lobby and JoAnns. But I got all this info from my cousin in law and she knows her stuff. (Her notes are written with each one, not mine)You'll have to copy and paste the links into your browser.
This one often has coupons if you sign up for their newsletter. They also have free shipping on $35+ orders, so I always wait until there are a few fabrics I want to order and then order all at once. :) A lot of times they have Babyville stuff, but it might be cheaper to get that from JoAnns with a coupon?
http://fabric.com/
I've ordered Loop tape, hook and loop, elastic, and PUL from this shop before and they were nice to work with. If you sign up on their Yahoo group and then set up an account with the yahoo info, you always get a 10% discount:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/kidsinthegarden/
Occasionally they send out coupon codes as well that can be used in conjunction with the Yahoo group discount:
http://kidsinthegarden.com/shop/
These sites are fairly reputable for supplies like PUL, inner and soaker materials, elastic, aplix (velcro), etc.:
http://verybaby.com/ecom-splash/COREseo.html
http://www.celticclothswholesale.com/fabric_2/PUL-Fabric-brDiaper-Making-Supplies.htm
http://neptunefabrics.com/
http://www.wahmsupply.com/PUL-Fabric_c14.htm
http://www.diapersewingsupplies.com/pul-fabric-prints/
This site started carrying Babyville PUL recently:
http://www.fabricdepot.com/index.php?page=CatalogPage&pageid=187042
These guys have some unique inner fabrics (zorb) and their customer service is good but sometimes the shipping is slow. They're in Canada I believe:
http://wazoodle.com/index.php/
You can also search for PUL fabric on Hyena Cart and Etsy:
http://hyenacart.com/
http://www.etsy.com/
Sewing supplies:
http://ctsusa.com/
If that sounds like too much of a hassle for you (which I totally understand) or if you don't feel confident enough in your sewing skills, buying them is always a great option too. My sister wrote an excellent Q&A post about how to buy them online and what kind of deals to look for. I highly suggest if you plan on buying some, you read it. Click
here to read that.
I sure hope that was helpful. I feel like I wrote my whole life story... whew! If you still have any questions or if I forgot to explain something, let me know by leaving a comment.
I feel like I need to add this-
I don't think less of anyone who chooses to use disposables. Obviously we did with McKenzie. I know there are tons of people out there who do the cloth diaper thing who stick their nose up at people who are "destroying the environment" or whatever. Believe me when I say, I am
only doing this because I feel it is what is best for our family. I don't ever want anyone to feel like I'm judging them.
(And in case you were wondering, I have the same issue with breastfeeding... It drives me crazy when moms attack other moms who don't breastfeed for whatever reason. Some people can't or it just doesn't work for their family, and that is fine by me. You do whatever is best for your family, and I'll do what works for mine and no one needs to get on anyone else's case about it. Ok?)- *sigh* ok I feel much better now :)